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EDUCATIONAL PROGRAMS – GATHERING PLACE

“Unstuffing America: An Insider’s Look at Food Marketing Practices and Your Choices for Healthier Eating”

On March 10th at 7:30 p.m. Hank Cardello. a former President of Sunkist Soft Drinks, Inc. and marketing executive with Coca-Cola, General Mills, Anheuser-Busch, Nabisco and Canada Dry, will present this fascinating look at the food industry and healthy eating. Discover what’s behind America’s overweight and obesity crisis and get a peek at the way food industry executives think, what grocers don’t want you to know, the mindset behind combo meals, and how activists and regulators are making things worse. He will also serve up his contrarian solutions, looking at what we are told and how to interpret it when making food purchases. Hank will address alternative policies to food and what food companies can and need to do to improve.

Hank Cardello is the author of “Stuffed: An Insider’s Look at Who’s (Really) Making America Fat”, available at McIntyre’s, and a #1 public health Best Seller on Amazon. He is a visiting fellow with the Hudson Institute, a contributor to the Atlantic, CEO of a firm helping corporations identify market opportunities while solving social problems like obesity, and chairs the Global Obesity Business Forum sponsored by UNC.

“Housing Options: Where Shall I Live Next?”

The Planning for the Next Phases of Life series continues on March 24th at 1:00-3:00 p.m. with “Housing Options”, a look at choices and resources for living arrangements, a two hour afternoon workshop. This program will feature speakers explaining types of housing and residential care available when we cannot or choose not to live in our own homes. What is an assisted living facility? Where is care for memory disorders available? How are nursing home services provided? What are ‘active adult’ communities? The panel will also explain how these housing options are regulated or licensed, tips on evaluating which may be a good fit for you, fees and costs. The program will look at other factors that influence choices about where we live as we age; including emotional, family and lifestyle factors. There will be plenty of time for questions and discussion as well.

Look for future programs on health care payments, managing a hospital stay, and other great topics.

BELTIE BALL A SUCCESS!

Thanks to the many volunteers who worked tirelessly since last spring to organize the very successful Beltie Ball. Held on February 11, more than 250 attended the dinner and dance to support Fearrington Cares. The work of many and the attendance of all are greatly appreciated.

CALENDAR BENEFITS FEARRINGTON CARES

Last year, Carol Kurtz and a team of volunteers (Aud Ackerman, Fred File, Jane Palkoski, Roy Lindholm) created a wonderful calendar illustrated with beautiful photographs made by your neighbors. The calendars sold out and $1000 from the project was donated to Fearrington Cares. Hats off to Carol and all who purchased these lovely calendars.

FEARRINGTON CARES ANNUAL MEETING

The Fearrington Cares Annual Meeting and 20th Year Celebration will be Friday, March 18th at 3:00 pm in the Barn. The program will include a summary of the Resident Survey conducted last year and a report of the highlights of services and programs from 2010. The event is open to all Fearrington residents and light refreshments will follow the meeting. Come join the ‘birthday party’ to celebrate our past and share your vision for our future. Please RSVP if you plan to attend via the ‘Evite’ you received or by calling the office at 542.6877

VOLUNTEER CORNER

Thank YOU, Volunteers! Volunteer Appreciation Program in April;
Mark your calendars for April 13th at the Gathering Place for a special brunch and program. We will recognize all the volunteers who make Fearrington Cares programs possible as part of the celebration of National Volunteer Week. Look for details and an ‘Evite’ invitation to come.

Like to Drive? Enjoy Helping Others? Become a Transportation Volunteer!
The Fearrington Cares needs several new drivers to join the team this spring. Contact Pat Skiver at 542.6877 for more information.

Fearrington Friends Volunteer Training March 10th
Want to help? Fearrington Friends is having an orientation for anyone interested in being a Fearrington Friends Volunteer. The orientation is on Thursday, March 10th at the home of Emilee Hendrix, 46 Caswell, W. Camden, at 10:00 a.m. Emilee coordinates the program with Pam Rademacher. Please call Emilee at 642-0450 for more information or if you want to attend this orientation.

SUPPORT GROUPS AND SERVICES

Interested in a New Support Group for Those Living With Cancer?
We are considering starting a support group for individuals who are newly diagnosed or living with cancer. The group would provide support for members in managing this illness, as well as sharing information and resources. Interested? Call the office (542.6877) and put your name on the list. If enough respond to form a group, we will schedule an organizational meeting to help you determine goals, meeting frequency, time, etc.

Parkinson’s Support Group Speakers

Last month, the Parkinson’s Support Group had the privilege of hearing national speaker Katie Hood, CEO of the Michael J. Fox Foundation. This month on March 2nd, Ethyl Farrell, supervisor of Adult Services for Chatham County, will speak on support services available in the home or from agencies in the community. Contact the office (542.687) for more information or see the Calendar for meeting details.

Brain Injury Support Group Changes

Many thanks to Shani Cohen who has led the Brain Injury support group since its inception. Shani has shared with this group of ‘Brainiacs’ with her ample knowledge, skill and sensitivity. Shani has left this role due to new work commitments but she will always have a place with this group. Thank you, Shani!

NEW DIABETES SERIES

Fearrington Cares is pleased to welcome UNC student nurse Adrienne Smith. As part of her work with us, Adrienne will present a series of small group programs on diabetes at Fearrington Cares. You may attend any (or all) of these 45 minute sessions. Dates of the sessions are:
April 5, 11.00am: Pathophysiology, diagnosis and treatment
April 12, 11.00am: Nutrition and diet (portion control, food groups, healthy choices)
April 19, 11.00am: Disease management – (tracking blood glucose, medication, exercise)

Please call the office and register for the dates you plan to attend so we can insure enough materials for everyone.

EDUCATION PROGRAMS GATHERING PLACE

“Aging at Home: Who Can Help?” on Feb. 24 at 7:30 p.m. continues the series “Planning for the Next Phases of Life” that began in January. Local author, health coach and consultant Maria Tadd will present an overview of the challenges and choices available when disability or illness impacts one’s ability to live safely at home. Ms. Tadd will speak from her experience arranging services to help her mother remain at home following a severe stroke, which she chronicled in her book Happiness Is Growing Old at Home. Check out Ms. Tadd’s website www.agingathome.info and don’t miss this opportunity to learn more about the practical and personal consequences for yourself or a loved one.
The March program of this series will review the growing range of housing options and support services available, ranging from living independently in your own home to adult communities, assisted living, nursing homes and more. April’s program will review costs and payments for healthcare; followed by a program to help you better understand Medicare, Medicaid, and other insurance coverage and eligibility. Also on the 2011 schedule are programs and workshops on topics such as new views of non-medical approaches to staying healthy and fit, tips for successful transitions from home to hospital, funeral planning and choices, writing condolence notes, memorials and your personal history.

PROGRAMS AND SERVICES

If you missed joining the new Fearrington Cares Weight Watchers group, which began last month, please call the office at 542-6877 to let us know if you are interested. Another group may be formed. Fearrington Friends matches volunteers with individuals who may be limited in their ability to get out and who would like a friendly visitor. If you would enjoy regular visits or phone calls from a
caring neighbor, please contact Fearrington Cares at 542-6877.

Parkinson’s Disease Update

Join the members of the Fearrington Cares Parkinson’s Support Group on Feb. 16 at 10:30 in the Gathering Place for a special presentation by representatives from the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research. Updates on research and treatment as well as the work of the Foundation will be presented. Call the office (542-6877) for more information.

FEARRINGTON CARES: CELEBRATING 20 YEARS!

Fearrington Cares traces its roots to two organizations that preceded it and are its foundations. Were you part of forming “Stay Put for Now” or “Home Care Connection”?
Did you volunteer with one of those groups? If so, please let us know and share with us your memories of the early days. We are also looking for photographs, programs, and other memorabilia about our “parent” agencies and milestones. Call 542-6877 or email annekissel@fearringtoncares.org.

VOLUNTEER CONNECTION: FINDING A GREAT VOLUNTEER JOB

Looking for a place to volunteer seems simple enough. You have time, energy, and a desire to be involved and to contribute. Many places are looking for someone like you. The Volunteer Connection can help you identify the best volunteer role for your interests, skills and time. Begin by asking yourself these questions:
•What are my interests? Are they computers, literacy, gardening, arts, animals, home repair, music, event planning, gift shops, guiding tours, kids, seniors, writing?
•Do I want to do things that are familiar or try something new?
•Do I prefer one time, seasonal, frequent or occasional work?
•Do I want to be engaged in administration (as serving on a board); be directly involved with clients (as volunteering at hospice) or have a hands-on role (as stocking the food pantry)?
•Do I want to do a few things in several places or commit all my time to one organization?
•How far do I want to travel?
Next, consider these points:
•Take your time.
•Talk to friends, read newsletters and newspapers about opportunities.
•Schedule an individual consultation with Volunteer Connection to learn more.
•Make an appointment with the agency and get a feel for the place; talk to the Volunteer Coordinator and other volunteers.
•Inquire about specifics: skills; training, time commitment, staff support, parking. Do you have to find a substitute if you can’t be there?
•Did you enjoy the visit? Are they your kind of people?
•Do you care about agency mission? Is it well organized?
Most agencies have many unadvertised positions. Tiger Rescue needs handypersons, the CORA Food Pantry needs data entry and phone assistance, Ronald McDonald House and Family Violence need gardeners. Fearrington Cares and FHA have needs for a wide variety of talents.
The final tip: Go for it.!
So how does this work? Here is recent example. A Fearrington resident met with the Volunteer Connection Coordinator to discuss her volunteer work, as she was unhappy with her current placement. After exploring her interests, time and travel preferences, she decided to volunteer at the Botanical Garden and also become a driver with Fearrington Cares. Matching with the right agency is what makes a successful volunteer connection.
If you would like information about volunteer opportunities or an individual consultation, contact Volunteer Connection Coordinator Donna Fehrenbach, at volconnection@yahoo.com or call Fearrington Cares at 542-6877. Help us keep our volunteer resource information up-to-date by sharing your experiences with Donna.

HOLD THESE DATES!

Fearrington Cares Annual Meeting: March 18, 3:00-4:00 p.m. Come to the Fearrington Cares birthday party to celebrate 20 years of history and help frame the next years of our unique organization. The annual meeting will report on 2010 activities and services. Highlights will be reviews of the demographic survey and strategic planning process that began last year. Participants will have the opportunity to help us look at how we maintain our record of excellent services while insuring the viability of the organization. Don’t miss this afternoon of celebrating and brainstorming.
Fearrington Cares Annual Volunteer Appreciation: April 13 at the Gathering Place. If Fearrington Cares is the heart of our community then surely our volunteers are the heart of this program. Fearrington Cares volunteers will be formally recognized at this event during National Volunteer Appreciation Week.

BELTIE BALL GALA

The excitement is building for the Beltie Ball Gala on Feb. 11 from 5:30-10:00 p.m. in The Barn! The event will help kick off 2011 as a year of celebration for the 20 years of Fearrington Cares as well as provide funds for the organization’s services. If you’re coming, check out the following ideas for the evening’s attire. Ladies: black, white and red are the suggested (but certainly not required) colors of the evening. Gents: black tie is optional but not required, a tie would be nice.
If you can’t attend the Gala, you can still be part of the action through the raffle and auction events. Raffle ticket holders need not be present to win and auction bids can be made before the Gala. Check out the wonderful range of items and experiences outlined in the program booklet delivered to your door last month. Consider organizing a bidding group of friends to share the cost of an item.
Vacation homes, for instance, can house four to ten people; dinner parties are for six or eight; and several wine tasting parties are for 12. It’s going to be a super evening with friends and neighbors!

01 FINE ART BLACK AND WHITE PHOTOGRAPH

On a misty afternoon in Big Sur, California, the combination of rocks, sun, mist and the ocean created a magical moment in time, rarely experienced by the millions of people who visit that beautiful area. This scene was captured on film with a medium format camera and printed by the photographer using traditional methods. The print was made on silver gelatin fiber paper, tray processed by hand and finished by selenium toning to insure archival permanence. The image size is 16×20 and mounted and framed to an overall size of 22×28. This extraordinary print is aptly titled “Sun Rays and Rocks, Big Sur, California.” lt is #6 of a limited edition of 100 and is signed by Eamon Kennedy, the photographer. www.eamonkennedy.com
Donor: Eamon Kennedy Donor Value: $450

02 ALL THE MAKINGS OF A GRAND PARTY!

A loaf of bread, a bottle of wine, and thou…for this lucky auction bidder, you will be able to invite lots of “thous.” This auction item combines a case of fine wine plus a $100 gift certificate to Southern Seasons from anonymous donors. The wine is from the family owned McCrea Cellars, a Washington state winery specializing in Rhone grape varietals. The case consists of 2 bottles each of the Grenache Blanc, Roussanne, Sirocco Blanc, Mourvedre, Grenache, and Syrah. Many of these wines have earned 92 to 95 ratings. The certificate from Southern Seasons is for $100. Added bonus, if the winner visits Seattle, owners Susan and Bob Neel will entertain up to six people at dinner!
Donors: McCrea Cellars Donor Value: $442

03 WINE AND DINE — TWICE!

The winner of this bid will take home one $200 gift certificate for dining at Bonne Soiree, highly rated and considered to be Chapel Hill’s premier restaurant. The décor, service and food evoke a French Country dining experience. Chef Chip Smith’s cuisine shows off his culinary training in France and in the US (the Inn at Little Washington, Jean-Louis at the Watergate and at Larry Forgione’s legendary An American Place in New York City). The setting at Bonne Soiree is elegant and the food is divine. This auction package also includes a $100 gift certificate for Cypress on the Hill featuring Chef-owner Alex Gallis, formerly with Ben Barker at Magnolia Grill. His food stresses local products and his menu is a mix of 50% southern (from his mother), 25% Greek (from his father) and 25% Asian that he enjoys. To top it off you will receive a $100 gift certificate for Total Wine.
Donors: Cypress on the Hill, Total Wine, Bonne Soiree Donor Value: $400

04 AUTOMOTIVE MAINTENANCE SERVICE

You will be bidding on a gift package from Pittsboro Ford that includes four service appointments for any make or model automobile for one year: Each service appointment will include:
- oil and filter change (five quart limit)
- tire rotation
- custom car wash
Donor: Pittsboro Ford Donor Value $250

05 CHAMPLAIN ISLANDS, VT, RESTORED 1829 FARMHOUSE B&B

Marvel at the views of the Adirondacks and Green Mountains from your second floor sitting room — or from the four bedrooms (each with twin beds) and bath-which comprise your accommodations for up to four adults for two nights. Your hosts will provide your breakfasts. Take advantage of your location by the Lake and proximity to Burlington, the University of Vermont, and the lovely city of Montreal. Your knowledgeable hosts will point out the local attractions, such as the Shelburne Museum, a diverse and unconventional display of art and Americana.
Donors: Mary and Edward Pringle Donors Value:$250

06 WINE TASTING FOR TWELVE

Spend an evening in the home of Fearrington’s well known artist, Carol Owen and her husband, Gwil. Your party of twelve will enjoy their artistically renovated historic district home surrounded by personalized art pieces. Your hosts will treat your group to a fun evening of tasting and learning about four selections of locally available wine. Appetizers and cheese to match the wine will be served.
Donors: Carol and Gwil Owen Donor Value: $250

07 “ON THE ROCKS,” HARPSWELL, ME – BED, BREAKFAST & THEN SOME

Relax and enjoy the views of Casco Bay and the Atlantic beyond in this nautically-furnished home. Accommodations include two bedrooms with queen beds, both with baths, (one en suite), for four adults for three nights. Your hosts will provide three breakfasts and one dinner, certain to be a gourmet’s delight. Accessible via a small bridge, the island is an hour from Portland and only twenty minutes from Brunswick. Once there, artists may opt not to leave because of the beautiful vistas to draw or paint; others may choose to accept the free passes for the Portland Museum of Art, Farnsworth Art Museum, Maine Maritime Museum and the Maine Historical Society. Many other local diversions are available.
Donors: John Webster & Kimball Page Donor Value: $2,000

08 SMALL PLATES TASTING AND WINE PAIRING FOR 12

Mix and mingle in the modern surroundings of Blue Sky Oil and Vinegar, located in Chapel Hill. Chefs Debbie DiSabatino and Carol Genovese will feature a parade of small plate dishes from around the world to be shared with the group. Exquisite wine pairings will complement the flavors of the food. Savor flavors from Italy, France, Greece, Mexico, India and China. You will learn the latest cooking techniques, experiment with unusual flavors and satisfy your palate with unforgettable tastes enhanced by the best olive oils and balsamic vinegars. Only twelve lucky people will be able to experience this event, to be held in March or May of 2011.
Donors: Debbie DiSabatino & Carol Genovese Donor Value: $500

09 THREE BOTTLES OF BORDEAUX: CHATEAU LA LAGUNE

Chateau La Lagune is a classic Bordeaux blend and enjoys Third Grand Cru status in the1855 classification. The 1982 vintage is considered one of the best in the 20th century. Expert reviewers, not just Parker, give this wine 90 or more points writing that it is very drinkable through 2014. The successful bidder will select three bottles from the Donor’s remaining seven.
Donor: David Lindeman Donor Value: $300

10 CASWELL BEACH, NC VILLA

A week of fun in the sand and surf awaits you. Your ocean view unit has three bedrooms and two baths and will accommodate six (including kids). It is just a half hour from Wilmington and its many attractions, and even closer to the village of Southport. Bring the children – better yet, bring the grandchildren!
Donor: Janet Parker Doublier , on behalf of Carolina Home Stay Donor Value: $975

11 CASWELL BEACH, NC VILLA, A SECOND WEEK- As Above

12 A WEEK ON THE NEW RIVER, PINEY CREEK, NC

Rocking chairs on a wrap-around NC porch, the river flows gently by; a crackling fire as the chilly evening descends, roasting marshmallows with your grandkids. This is your chance to share things of value from times past. Located northwest of Winston-Salem in Piney Creek, NC near the Virginia border, this fully-furnished comfortable home offers three bedrooms and two baths to accommodate up to ten people – if you are either a close relative or very good friends. Hike, fish, and experience the beauty of woods and river. But, should it rain, the home offers DirecTV, wireless internet and good cell phone reception. Pets welcome.
Donor: Peggy Wall Value: $1500

13 ART QUILT WALL HANGING

“Jarred Memory One” is an art quilt wall hanging created in 2001 by Jacquelyn Nouveau. It is made of commercial batik and hand-dyed fabrics, disperse dyed organza, and is a raw edged machine stitched piece. It measures 42” by 42.”
Jacquelyn Nouveau has spent more than thirty years in quilting. She started her career by learning the standard methods of quilt making, subsequently branching out into art quilts and wearable art. Jacquelyn continues to work and study, having graduated from NC State with a Master’s Degree in Art and Design, at the age of 79!
Donor: Jacquelyn Nouveau Donor Value: $2200

14 DINNER WITH VERDI!

Giuliano Bugialli, the popular Italian cooking teacher and author has become a major influence in the United States. His recipes have inspired your hosts, the Burkes. The result? A dinner for eight from antipasti to dolci with two courses in between. No singing waiters but some Verdi with dinner and lots of other greens on the side (CDs only).
Donors: Judie and Phil Burke Donor Value: $360

15 B&B EXPERIENCE ON THE CANADIAN COAST OF LAKE ERIE

Close to Niagara-on-the-Lake, the Falls, Buffalo and its International Airport, this home combines traditional cottage charm with luxurious modern comfort. Up to four adults will enjoy two spacious bedrooms, each with en suite bath. On-site amenities include your own private tennis court, kayaks, dinghies and bicycles to explore the lake and surrounding area. Cultural treasures abound, e.g., the Albright Knox Art Gallery, Frank Lloyd Wright’s Darwin Martin Complex, and the internationally acclaimed Shaw Festival at Niagara-on-the-Lake. Your four night stay will include four breakfasts, one dinner and a choice of wine and cocktails. However, your hosts can’t guarantee sunsets!
Donors: Jackie Castle & Dick Shaughnessy Donor Value: $2000

16 DINNER ON MILLCROFT

Cocktails on the deck overlooking Bush Creek with passed hors ’d’oeuvres. Your hosts will then serve you a gourmet dinner for eight, menu designed with your input. Dine to the music of Cole Porter and George Gershwin played on live piano.
Donors: Kay and George Hunt Donor Value: $350

17 Crooked Oak Mountain Inn, Asheville, NC

This beautiful mountain Bed and Breakfast is located in Asheville, only three miles from downtown, five miles from the Biltmore Estate. A full gourmet breakfast is served daily as well as complimentary afternoon beverages and hors d’oeuvres. The inn is a very special place set on three gently wooded acres, with a covered deck, stone patio with a small pond and breathtaking views. Enjoy two nights in the natural beauty of the Blue Ridge Mountains along with a warm, casual, and friendly atmosphere provided by your hosts, Patti and Bear. In cooler weather there is a fire each night and there is always something to drink or snack on at your fingertips. The 2nd night donated anonymously. http://www.crookedoakmountaininn.com/index.htm
Donor: Crooked Oak Mountain Inn Donor Value: $400

18 GASTRONOMIC HEAVEN FOR SIX!

….Flickering candles, exotic aromas, sparkling glasses on a beautiful table. Six most fortunate people will arrive at the home of Jim and Barbara Terry for an elegant French dining experience. Apéritifs and hot hors d’oeuvres begin the evening. The multicourse meal is comprised of classic French fare with bouche d’ameuses, soup and fish or seafood courses setting the stage for the main event. The leisurely cheese course to follow is a change of pace, and then dessert. Fine French wines complement each course. Freshly ground coffee accompanies a selection of handmade mignardises and chocolates. Your choice of digestifs as you relax before the fire (except in summer) rounds out the evening. Each guest will receive a souvenir menu. The Terrys have lived and traveled widely in France. Their collection of more than a hundred French cookbooks attests to their interest and skill in this culinary specialty.
Donors: Jim and Barbara Terry Donor Value: $450

19 A WEEK OF MOUNTAIN LIVING, BOONE, NC

Spend a relaxing week with friends or relatives in this spacious, private mountain home in the Yonahlossee Saddle Club, a gated community in beautiful Boone. Fully furnished with all conveniences, the home has three bedrooms plus a bunkroom, and two baths. It will accommodate up to nine people, depending on the mix of children and adults. Consult with the Donors for details. Private riding lessons and trail rides are available and conveniently located adjacent to the home. Other area attractions include Grandfather Mountain, Linville Falls, and Moses Cone State Park and Craft Center. More active pursuits are available as well: hiking, fishing, dining — and shopping! The home is conveniently located just three hours from Fearrington, at an elevation of 3,800 feet, http://www.yonahlossee.com/
Donors: Karen and Clark Havighurst

A. DUKE CENTER FOR LIVING AT FEARRINGTON

Support your healthy lifestyle – or begin one – with a three month individual membership at this state-of-the-art fitness facility. Join your friends as you take advantage of the indoor swimming pool, track, cardio and weight machines.
Get expert assistance from the highly qualified, friendly staff of trainers and physical and massage therapists. All of this is available under one roof, in the most pleasant of atmospheres. (If you are a current member and win this raffle prize, three months will be added to your existing membership). (Value: Up to $240)

B. ARIA SKIN AND LASER SPA CERTIFICATE MICRODERMABRASION FACIAL WITH ENZYME MASK

Buy many chances for this one!
Treat yourself to a revitalizing exfoliation with enzyme mask at Chapel Hill’s well known Aria Spa and Skin Care Clinic. Some pampering will make you look better while doing wonders for your morale. You deserve it – it’s been a tough year! (Value $85)

C. BLUE SKY OIL AND VINEGAR PACKAGE

Gourmet and cooking enthusiasts will treasure the combination of fresh extra virgin olive oil and fine balsamic vinegar from Chapel Hill’s new and unique shop, Blue Sky Oil and Vinegar. Chefs of every skill level will appreciate the quality that will help to bring their creations to a higher level – and so will their guests. (Value $175)

D. RAINBOW CYCLES NINE SPEED HYBRID BICYCLE

Rainbow Cycles is both the premier and most colorful bicycle shop in the greater Sandhills area. What better way to enjoy nature and increase your fitness level than racing around Fearrington and impressing your grandchildren as you whiz by on your brand new nine speed hybrid bike?
Winner takes his/her choice of either gender bike. (Value: $450)

FEARRINGTON CARES CELEBRATRES TWENTY YEARS OF
NEIGHBORS HELPING NEIGHBORS!

This year, 2011, marks the twentieth anniversary of the beginnings of Fearrington Cares! We trace our roots to the formation of “Stay Put for Now”, which began operating in 1991, and ‘Home Care Connection’. These two groups were formed by Fearrington Village residents to assist neighbors with various services. In the year 2000 the two programs decided to consolidate their activities. “Home Care Connection” was merged into “Stay Put For Now” and the name of the combined organization was changed to “Fearrington Cares.” We are fortunate to have a community that not only created this wonderful organization but has helped it grow and thrive for these many years.

JANUARY EDUCATION EVENTS AT THE GATHERING PLACE

Planning for the Next Phases of Life Series begins January 20th. This month kicks off the first in a new series of programs offered in 2011 about the next phases of your life. The programs will cover a range of topics aimed at helping you make thoughtful choices about your plans to meet health, housing and care needs. Come expand your alternatives and add to your knowledge for the next steps in your journey.

The Phases of Aging As We Live in Fearrington: Thursday, January 20, 7:30 p.m, Gathering Place. The series begins with Fearrington Village resident Peter Thomas, former FHA and Fearrington Cares president and retired Episcopal priest. He will present a thoughtful overview of growing older from physical, intellectual, relationships and other dimensions to set the framework for looking at the challenges and rewards of later years.

Tips for Staying Fit: Monday, January 24th, 1:30 pm. Keeping physically fit adds greatly to one’s health and means more than an occasional walk around the block or visit to the gym. Come to this program, presented by Vicki Field, and learn about healthy habits related to exercise, diet and outlook to help you maintain a good level of fitness. Vicki, who operates Passage Points coaching and consulting, has 30 years of experience as a certified professional coach, a Director of Learning and Development and working extensively with individuals and groups to enhance fitness and healthy living habits.

PROGRAMS and SERVICES

Joy of Motion: Led by Glenna Batson, this program debuted this fall with an enthusiastic group who combined movement and music to improve their coordination and balance. Another session may be offered later this year. Interested? Call 542.6877 for more information or to sign up.

Volunteer Connection. Does your New Year’s resolutions list include volunteering? There are many ways to get involved in Fearrington Cares and our surrounding community. Check out the Volunteer Connection to learn which opportunity best fits your interests and time availability. Contact Donna Fehrenbach at 542.6877 or email: volconnection@yahoo.com to arrange an individual review to help you find a great volunteer experience.

CCRC Information: Considering a move to a Continuing Care Retirement Community (CCRC)? Fearrington Cares Board member Deanna Kitay, has expert knowledge of what to consider when making this decision and what to look for in a CCRC. She also has specific information on many local facilities that offer these services. Call the office at 542.6877 to make an appointment with Deanna.

Galloway Ridge In Home Services Need help with personal care, homemaking chores or meal preparation? Check out the “Home Concierge and Care Services”’ and “Nutritional Support Program” from Galloway Ridge. These programs can tailor services and frequency of assistance to help you when an illness or accident temporarily limits your abilities or when longer term help is needed to help you manage these activities. Come by the Fearrington Cares office for brochures, call 545.2655 or visit our website at www.fearringtoncares.org for more information on using these great services.
VOLUNTEER CORNER

Hats off and many thanks to Joe Geoghegan for his amazing work in December helping dozens of Village residents make their Medicare Part D selections. Joe’s expertise guided many through the maze of options and plans that surround this challenging process. He managed to do that in sessions of about 30 minutes with each person, guiding folks through the process effectively. Joe estimates he saved those lucky enough to work with him more than $30,000.00 total. Thanks Joe!

Communications Committee Looking for Volunteers: Did you once write for your school paper? Do you enjoy writing and editing short articles? The Communications Committee is looking for new members to serve as ‘reporters’ for Fearrington Cares events, to work on occasional short term projects and help with getting the message out to the community about Fearrington Cares services. Interested? Contact Anne Kissel at 542.6877 or email to annekissel@fearringtoncares.org.

BELTIE BALL

The Beltie Ball, a celebration for Fearrington Cares, is on its way to being the best ticket in the Village for having a great evening in the midst of winter. The event Preview Booklets should be on your doorstep this month to entice you to attend this wonderful evening. Check out the auction and raffle items listed in the Booklet and please consider the services of the local businesses who are event sponsors. The Preview Booklet also has information on participating in the raffle and the auction fun if you cannot attend the Gala. Seating is still available; call or come by the Fearrington Cares office to obtain a reservation form or to drop off your completed form there. Check out the Fearrington Cares website and watch for ‘ECares’ messages with more information on the Gala.

FEARRINGTON CARES BOARD of DIRECTORS UPDATE

Survey: Many thanks to the many Village residents who responded to the Fearrington Cares survey conducted by the Board this past fall. Your help generated a response rate of 60%, a great percentage for any survey, and will provide helpful information for our program planning. We will report the results of the survey and other planning activities at the Fearrington Cares Annual Meeting in March. That meeting will provide an opportunity for you to let us know your thoughts about services we currently provide and ideas on what might be helpful to add. The Annual Meeting will also be a celebration of the 20th anniversary of Fearrington Cares’ beginnings, please come help us recognize our past as we plan for the future.

Annual Campaign: We are deeply grateful for your support of the 2010 Annual Fund Drive. Your generous contributions support our services from to education programs to support groups; office expenses, salaries for our Nurse and Administrative Assistant, and all the other costs to running an organization. Without you, we would be out of business! As of the end of November, our receipts are well over $90,000, with more than 50% of households contributing. Thank you for your support and commitment to keeping Fearrington Cares working for you and your neighbors. Kay Hunt, Board President

Here are the FAQs (Frequently Asked Questions) about the Beltie Ball:

Q. I don’t own or don’t want to wear a tuxedo. What does “Black tie optional” mean?
A. “Black tie optional” means only this: the ladies can get as dressed up as they want, whereas the guys are just asked to wear a jacket. A tie would be nice, but not absolutely necessary. If you happen to own a tux, and it still fits, that would be great.

Q. I’m not interested in dancing. Is this event supposed to be a dinner dance?

A. Dancing is not required. The New Horizons Dance Band is a group of retiree musicians, including some Fearrington Village residents, who have fun playing “golden oldies.” It will be fun to listen.

Q. I’d like to attend but don’t want to sit by myself? Is there a table available for singles?

A. Yes! The Gala is for everyone, not just couples. Individuals can request to sit with couples they know, with other singles or meet new friends at a table just for those who are attending solo. Just put your preference (singles table, names of others attending you want to sit with) on the back of the reservation card.

Q. Is it possible to change my meal choice?

A. Yes. If you prefer a different meal than the one you originally chose, you can change your order by contacting Rhoda Davis ronandrhoda@nc.rr.com or 542-6411). The menu is posted on the Fearrington Cares website: www.fearringtoncares.org. Meal changes must be received by January 31.

Q. Is wine included with the cost of the meal?

A. Yes. Two glasses of wine are included with your dinner ticket. You will be served a glass of sparkling wine during the cocktail hour and a glass of red or white wine with dinner. You can purchase additional glasses of wine at the cash bar.

Q. Will mixed drinks be served?

A. Mixed drinks will be available at the cash bar

Q. Where do I buy a raffle ticket?

A. Raffle tickets are being sold for $5.00 each or three tickets for $10.00. Items to be raffled are a nine speed hybrid bicycle, a three-month membership at the Duke Center for Living, a Blue Sky Gourmet Oil and Vinegar set and a facial gift certificate to Aria Spa. You may choose the prize that you wish in the raffle. Raffle tickets can be purchased at McIntyre’s until 12:00 noon on Feb. 11th or at the Gala event. You do not have to be present to win a raffle item. Drawing for the prizes will be held during the Beltie Ball.

Q. I can’t find my invitation and registration form. How can I sign up?

A. You can get an invitation at the Fearrington Cares office, or you can print a registration form by going to the Fearrington Cares website: www.fearringtoncares.org.

Q. What if I paid but then can’t attend? Can I get my money back?

A. Refunds will be available until January 31st. Please submit your refund request in writing by this date to Rhoda Davis ronandrhoda@nc.rr.com or call 542-6411. You can also transfer your reservation by notifying Rhoda by January 31st and letting her know the names of those attending in your place.

Q. I understand there are going to be some terrific live auction items available, especially a large assortment of vacation homes. How do I find out about these in advance?
A: Watch for the preview program that will be delivered to your doorstep in early January. It will include all those enticing details, plus how to submit advance bids even if you do not plan to attend the event.

TRAVEL WISE: TIPS FOR A GREAT TRIP!

Tuesday, December 7th at 7:30 p.m. – Gathering Place
Planning a trip to Costa Rica? Is a hike in the Grand Canyon on your calendar? Do you know what to do if you or your traveling companion becomes ill in another country? Wherever your travel dreams lead you; make sure you plan well and enjoy a safe journey. This program, presented by Jean Holcomb who has worked for 32 years as a travel professional, will help you understand everything from trip insurance to inoculations and documents needed for foreign trips. Traveling alone? Look for tips to help single travelers enjoy a great trip on their own or as part of a group. Jean Holcomb is the owner of Viking Travel; many will recall when her business was located in the Village Center. Don’t miss this great addition to your suitcase!

PLANNING FOR THE NEXT PHASES OF LIFE’ SERIES COMING

Is your crystal ball shined up? Are the tea leaves telling you what the future brings in terms of understanding your health, housing and happiness options as you age? Watch this space for information on the Fearrington Cares 2011 series on ‘Planning for the Next Phases of Life’. The series will begin in January with Fearrington Village resident Peter Thomas, former FHA and Fearrington Cares president. He will present a thoughtful overview of the ‘Late Phases of Aging, As We Live in Fearrington’; a look at changes and challenges many individuals experience as they grow older. Throughout the year additional programs will focus on topics such as housing options, health care advocacy, funeral arrangements, creating condolence notes and memorials, writing a life story and resources for remaining at home.

‘LIVING HEALTHY’ SERIES

The response was very positive to the November Fearrington Cares education program on self-management of chronic disease. The presenter, Serena Weisner, also offers a series of programs based on helping individuals find practical ways to deal with the effects of chronic illness such as heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, and chronic pain. The six weekly two-hour sessions cover information on nutrition and food choices, exercise options and understanding one’s illness. Interested? If so, please contact Fearrington Cares (542-6877) and let us know you would like to participate in this free series. We need at least ten participants to move ahead with the program, which would be held next year.

LOOKING FOR WHEELS

Wheelchairs that is! Fearrington Cares maintains a loan closet for medical equipment such as walkers, canes, bedside commodes and wheelchairs. While our inventory on most items is high, the demand for wheelchairs has risen. If you have a wheelchair in good shape, please consider donating it to Fearrington Cares.

GALA PLANS ARE PERKING

Won’t you be our valentine? Come celebrate the Heart of Fearrington Village on Friday, February 11, 2011 at our Beltie Ball in the Barn. Music will be provided by the New Horizons Band and will feature swing music of the 50s and 60s. As well as fantastic auction opportunities at the event, there will be terrific raffle items – ticket sales for these will begin this month. In an elegant setting, scrumptious food will be provided by the Fearrington House Restaurant.

BELTIE BALL MENU

Hors d’Oeuvres and a Glass of Sparkling Wine

First Course
Baby Greens with Spiced Pecans, Goat Cheese, and Roasted Baby Beets

Main Course (select one)
Braised Short Ribs of Beef in Red Wine Sauce, with Potatoes Au Gratin, Green Beans, Roasted Baby Carrots
Seared Chicken Breast with Wilted Spinach and Wild Mushroom Veloute Sauce, Mashed Potatoes
Seared Salmon, Grilled Asparagus with Sauce Bearnaise, Fingerling Potatoes
Wild Mushroom Risotto with Herbed Goat Cheese, Root Vegetable Chips

Dessert
Lemon Buttermilk Tart, Raspberry Mint Sauce

Wine Served with the Main Course

MEDICARE PART D ASSISTANCE

A few appointments are still available for help with choosing among the Medicare Part D drug plan options. Volunteer Joe Geoghegan is our resident expert and he can guide you through the maze of determining the best plan for you. Call the Fearrington Cares office at 542-6877 to schedule a 30 minute appointment.

BOOST YOUR 2010 TAX DEDUCTIONS

Please don’t forget our annual campaign. With support from over 50% of Fearrington residents, this provides our major source of ongoing funding for our programs, nurse, and office administrative expenses. If you haven’t given yet in 2010, or if you like to make all your charitable gifts at the end of the year, we hope we are part of your end of year “to-do” list. If you did not receive a request letter from us or need another donation form, please call the office (542-6877) for another copy or simply go to our web site at www.fearringtoncares.org and click on “Donate” and then “Ways to Give”.

LOOKING FOR A UNIQUE HOLIDAY GIFT?

If your holiday gift list includes friends and family in other zip codes, consider introducing them to Fearrington Village with a copy of Flavors of Fearrington. This beautiful cookbook not only contains recipes from your neighbors but also has a wonderful history of the Village. Cookbooks are on sale ($20.00) at the Fearrington Cares office and at McIntyre’s Books. Complete the gift package with a holiday red Fearrington Cares apron and start the year off with an amazing 2011 calendar that includes photographs taken by residents of the Village in all its seasons.

VOLUNTEER CORNER

Transportation Volunteers: Look for an email to arrive soon that has the schedule for the first half of next year; January to June 2011. The schedule will list the teams of three drivers assigned to each week. Check out your week and if you need to make a change, contact another driver to switch and let Pat at Fearrington Cares know of the switch.

VOLUNTEERING WITH FEARRINGTON CARES: A TYPICAL DAY

First, there is no typical day! Volunteers with Fearrington Cares may perform the same task each time they work but rarely are two days alike. That’s because our volunteers work with people; neighbors who have different stories and different needs. A volunteer driver may make the same trip to UNC hospitals every time he or she takes a week but the person being driven will be different.
Handypersons and Computer Helpers change a lot of light bulbs and jump start many printers. But each assignment is an opportunity to meet another neighbor and visit a different part of the Village. Fearrington Friends volunteers also get to know neighbors and their stories as well. Volunteers frequently share that this is one of the best ‘fringe benefits’ of being a volunteer! Want to learn more? Contact us at 542-6877.

SPOON RIVER READING

Thanks to Herb Wolff, the members of the ‘Ten-Plus’ Group, Pamela Stewart and all who performed (on the stage and behind the scenes) for the wonderful evening of theatre and music presented in late October. This event provided a unique experience for its audience and a much appreciated contribution to Fearrington Cares.

-MANAGEMENT OF CHRONIC DISEASE: WHAT CAN YOU DO?

Wednesday, November 3 at 7:30 P.M.
Chronic disease affects a staggering 162 million people in the US. If this includes you, come hear Serena Weisner, MS, the Living Healthy Project Director at the NC Division of Aging and Adult Services, speak about options for enhancing your role in managing a chronic condition. Ms Weisner will share updates on including ‘self care’ in your health care plan through positive self-management. Learn about Stanford University’s Chronic Disease Self-Management program, known as Living Healthy and learn ways to proactively help yourself or someone you care about.
Ms Weisner has extensive knowledge of a variety of evidence-based health promotion programs and is experienced in providing technical assistance and training to Aging Services Network partners across the state and country.

STRATEGIES FOR DEALING WITH STRESSFUL HOLIDAYS

Thursday, November 18 at 7:30 P.M.
Trick or Treat! Happy Thanksgiving! Happy Holidays! Each year, it seems the retail world begins its holiday marketing earlier. The ramped-up consumerism is accompanied by a bombardment of movies and television programs that focus on happy families celebrating together. What happens if this Norman Rockwell picture of holiday time isn’t what you feel? This program, presented by Theresa Raphael-Grimm, PhD, CNS, will help you understand the complex feelings and strong emotions that come during the holiday season.
Come learn about another side of the holidays and gain ideas for managing your not-always merry feelings. Dr. Raphael-Grimm is Clinical Associate Professor with the Schools of Nursing and Medicine at UNC Chapel Hill, where she teaches and is also a practicing psychotherapist.

IT’S THE PARTY OF THE YEAR!

Look for an invitation, delivered to your door, to The Beltie Ball, a black and white fund-raising gala, to be held on Feb. 11, from 5:30 – 10:00 p.m. at the Barn. Come help us celebrate 20 years of neighbors helping neighbors. Details to follow.

DO YOU KNOW A NEIGHBOR WHO MIGHT NEED SOMEONE TO VISIT?

Do you know a friend or neighbor who may not be able to get out and socialize? Would you like someone to visit with in your home if you can’t always get out and about? The Fearrington Friends are a group of volunteers who also enjoy getting to know neighbors and sharing conversation with them. Please contact the office at 542-6877.

CONNECTING COMMUNITY NEEDS WITH VOLUNTEERS

Fearrington Cares could not function without the involvement of the many volunteers who help provide our services, develop our programs and keep the office running. Volunteers are also crucial to the operations of most local services, schools and nonprofit agencies. If you are interested in volunteering, the Volunteer Connection can help. Coordinator Donna Fehrenbach has visited dozens of local agencies to learn what they need from volunteers and what volunteers need to know about serving in their programs. She is available to meet with you to identify a good volunteer match for your skills, interests and schedule. Contact her at volconnection@yahoo.com or call 542-6877.

COMPUTER GIVING YOU PROBLEMS?

The Fearrington Cares Computer Help Volunteers are skilled and knowledgeable about both ‘MAC ‘and ‘PC’ computers. Call the Fearrington Cares office (542-6877) to request help with the following: check-out and/or set-up Web browsers, security software; set-up new computer, iPod; install new software; eradicate viruses; troubleshoot problems with hardware or software.
The volunteers don’t provide instruction in using software. Such classes are available throughout the area. The volunteers can provide suggestions for new equipment and software and for using professional services when extensive work is needed.
Want to get involved? Please consider becoming a Computer Help volunteer; contact the office for more information.

HAVE YOU BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH TYPE II DIABETES?

Fearrington Cares is exploring options for a short series of programs on living with Adult Onset or Type II diabetes. Topics may include the causes, symptoms and complications of the disease, medications, and the effect of nutrition, diet and exercise. If there is sufficient interest, we expect to offer the program early in 2011. Let us know if you would participate; please call the office (542-6877) and put your name on the Living with Diabetes list.

JOY OF MOTION

Want to improve your flexibility and balance? Try dancing and explore the joys of motion through expressive movement and music! Former professional dancer Glenna Batson will take participants from sitting to standing to moving through space. You’ll learn how rhythm, imagery and direction can help you move your body more freely and improve balance and coordination. Come have fun in an energetic, non-competitive atmosphere on Nov. 9, 11, 16, 18, 30 and Dec. 2, 7, 9 from 10:30-11:30 a.m. at the Gathering Place. Call the office (542-6877) to reserve your space.

NEW FC BOARD MEMBERS

Alice Buhl – Chair, Strategic Planning. Alice is Senior Consultant for Philanthropic Services for Lansberg Gersick & Associates, working with people to develop plans that reflect their philanthropic values and resources. She has served on the board of the national Council on Foundations and the National Center for Family Philanthropy.

Barbara Lankford – Vice President. Barbara recently retired from 25 years in the Foreign Service. She finished her career in Washington, DC, at the National Foreign Affairs Training Center, where she developed, headed and taught training programs for foreign and civil service officers going abroad to serve as human resources managers.

Bob Steen – Chair, Information Technology. Much of Bob’s career was with IBM. He has also taught at City University of Seattle. He volunteers every summer for the Orient Land Trust in Villa Grove, CO, and for the Pittsboro Public Library.

Kay White – Incoming Treasurer (2011). Kay was Managing Director and Treasurer of Trevor Stewart Burton Jacobsen Inc., a New York financial services firm. Since living here, she has been an active board member and past president of AAUW.

RESIDENT SURVEYS

Thanks very much to our friends who responded to our brief survey in October. We tried to reach as many of you as possible by email. We delivered paper surveys to those (about 250) for whom we had no email address. (If you use email, please share your address with us! You’re missing out on lots of timely bulletins sent out through our electronic newsletter.) We’re analyzing the results and will give a full report at our Annual Meeting on March 18, 2011. Look for a second, follow-up survey soon. It will be mailed (i.e. USPS, bulk rate) to all residents in our data base and will ask for your input on programs and services.

MEDICARE PART D ASSISTANCE

Appointments to discuss your Medicare Part D options with Joe Geohagen are being scheduled for the following dates between noon and 3:00 p.m. at the Fearrington Cares office: Nov. 16, 18, 19, 23, and 30. December dates are also available; call the office at 542-6877 to schedule.

LOOKING AHEAD

As part of a new strategic plan, Fearrington Cares is conducting two brief resident surveys by email this fall. The information from the surveys will help guide the future of Fearrington Cares. Please be assured your responses will be kept confidential and the results reported only as aggregate data. You should have received an email with a link to the first questionnaire, a simple on-line demographic survey. If you did not receive the email or would prefer a paper survey, please call the office (542.6877). Look for a second opportunity in November in an email survey to give us your thoughts on our programs and services.

Why are we doing these surveys? The demographics of Fearrington Village have changed in recent years; this first survey will help us know ‘who we are.’ Fearrington Cares provides information on fee-based services available in the local community. Nationally and locally, more people are choosing to stay in their own homes as long as possible. If this is your choice, we think that’s terrific, and we can help you make some critical decisions and find outside help if you want us to. We encourage you to have a back-up plan, though, just in case it becomes too difficult down the road.

What is your vision of Fearrington Cares? We want to hear from you in order to do sound strategic planning with ample opportunity for community input. Your information will be extremely helpful in understanding your expectations, needs and concerns about Fearrington Cares.

Kay Hunt, President

EDUCATIONAL PROGRAMS AT THE GATHERING PLACE

Is Diabetes in Your Future (or present)? Monday, October 18, 1:30 p.m. Do you have a family history of Diabetes? . Our speaker, John Gotelli, RN, GNP, UNC Hospitals Geriatric Medicine Service, will provide an update on this important condition. He will discuss risks for developing Diabetes, prevention methods, and dietary and medication treatments to manage it. A review of the possible complications and how to prevent them will be included.

New Research on Stroke: Thursday, October 21, 7:30 p.m. Do you know the signs of a possible stroke? Susan E Wilson RN, MSN, C-ANP Clinical Professor and Adult Nurse Practitioner at the UNC Hospitals Stroke Center, will discuss treatment of acute stroke, stroke prevention, and specialized care in the early hours after a stroke. Ms. Wilson, will also discuss current research on strokes.

AN EVENING AT THE THEATRE

A reading from Edgar Lee Masters’ classic, Spoon River Anthology, will be performed as a benefit for Fearrington Cares by the Ten-Plus Group at 7:30 p.m. on Friday, Oct. 29 at the Gathering Place. Organized by Fearrington resident Herb Wolff, Ten-Plus is comprised of ‘theatre folk’ who donate their time to stage readings to benefit nonprofit organizations. Tickets are $10, payable at the door, no reserved seating. For further information, watch for emails from Fearrington Cares or call 542-6877.

ANNUAL CAMPAIGN NEWS

Thanks to your generous financial support, the Fearrington Cares annual resident campaign is going very well, but we’re not there yet! Since the campaign began we have received donations from more than 500 households. Second appeal letters were mailed in September to those we have not heard from in 2010. Fearrington Cares depends on your support to fund all our services and maintain the office. Please help us ensure that these services are available for you or your neighbors. Thanks!

COOKBOOKS AVAILABLE AGAIN!

Just in time for the holiday season, the Flavors of Fearrington cookbook is available for sale at the office and at McIntyre’s bookstore, courtesy of R.B. Fitch. This is a book you will want to own and also use as gifts. In addition to tested recipes from the talented cooks of

Fearrington, the book includes a wonderful history of the land and development of the Village by R.B. and Jenny Fitch.

FEARRINGTON FRIENDS

Come learn more about this terrific volunteer opportunity on Monday, Oct. 11th at 7:30 p.m. at the home of Emilee Hendrix. (642.0450). What do the Fearrington Friends do? They visit with neighbors recovering from surgery or illness who are not able to get out as much as they would like. If you would like a Fearrington Friend to spend some time with you, whether it’s to visit, take a walk, or whatever you decide, call the office at 542.6877 for more information.

DEFENSIVE DRIVING COURSE

We all know that as we mature our bodies change and these changes can affect your driving. If you have an accident, insurance companies can raise your rates up to 45 %. Learn ways to reduce your chances for an accident in the AARP Defensive Driving Course. Joe Geoghegan, a Fearrington Cares Volunteer, will present the course on November 5, 9:00 a.m. – 1:00 p.m. at the Gathering Place. Fee is $12 for AARP members and $14 for Non-Members; checks made out to AARP will be collected at the session. To register, call 542-6877.

WHAT VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITY IS RIGHT FOR YOU?

Volunteer Connections, a new Fearrington Cares service, offers potential volunteers an individual meeting with Donna Fehrenback to explore your interests, time and travel preferences. She has researched a wide range of community agencies in the Chatham County and surrounding area, including Fearrington Cares. To schedule an appointment or learn more about this program, email Donna at volconnection@yahoo.com or call Fearrington Cares at 542.6877. There is a volunteer opportunity just right for you and we will help you find it!

FLU SHOTS TO BE GIVEN

In conjunction with the Chatham County Health Department, Fearrington Cares will again be giving seasonal flu shots on Tuesday, October 19 from 9:00 a.m. –
12:00 p.m. at the Gathering Place. Bring your insurance or Medicare card. Appointments are not necessary.

HELP CHART THE FUTURE DIRECTION OF FEARRINGTON CARES!

In 2007, Fearrington Cares surveyed residents and developed its first strategic plan. Since then, we have accomplished most of that plan’s goals. We have hired an executive director, increased awareness of our programs and services, strengthened fundraising and financial oversight mechanisms, designed a new data base for recording all aspects of FC activities, and reconfigured our building to use the space more effectively. You will see the effects of that plan continue as we bring you new classes and events this fall and a fundraising gala early next year.
We are excited at what we have accomplished, but know that it is now time to plan again for the future. Fearrington continues to grow and change, as do the interests and needs of individual residents. We want Fearrington Cares to continue to support and strengthen the quality of life aspects of Fearrington Village that brought so many of us here to live.
We are now embarking on a new strategic planning process. The first phase of that plan will be a demographic survey so we know who lives here now. Later this month you will receive an invitation to take a very short email survey. Those who do not use email will receive printed copies. In order to have an accurate picture of Fearrington residents, we need to collect data on every household.
We will report the results back to you and will use the information in our planning. It will help us answer questions like: how many young children live here, how many people are staying in their homes after age 80, and how do residents feel about their current health status.
Later in the fall we expect to send out another survey that will ask more specific questions about what you think you might need or want from Fearrington Cares, how you feel about our current programs and services, and any other suggestions you may have. Through this process, we will strongly encourage you to help us develop a vision for the future of Fearrington Cares.
In addition, we are studying what other organizations like us are doing. And since we now have a more accurate way to track use of existing services, we will be reviewing our own activities over the past two years. We expect this research phase to take until the end of this year. After we have analyzed all this data, we will provide other opportunities for you to discuss and help decide the future direction of Fearrington Cares.
We hope you will respond to the first email survey as soon as you receive it. By doing that you will minimize the time that volunteers will need to follow up. If you have any questions, please email me at kayhunt@fearringtoncares.org., or call our Executive Director, Anne Kissel, at 542-6877 weekdays between 9 am and 1 pm.
Many thanks for your continued support!
Kay Hunt, President
Fearrington Cares

VOLUNTEER AS A COMPUTER GURU

We Need YOU! Fearrington Cares services are provided by volunteers who live in the community; neighbors helping neighbors. Currently we are looking for additional volunteers to join the Computer Help Group. This very popular Fearrington Cares service needs folks who are experienced at computer troubleshooting and basic problem solving. If you enjoy helping people remain on good terms with their computers, then please consider joining this group. Call 542.6877 for more information.

ATTENTION: VOLUNTEER DRIVERS!

The driving assignments for the remainder of 2010 have been sent to all volunteers. Please check your dates. If you cannot work your assigned week, please arrange to switch with another volunteer on the schedule or the ‘backup’ list. Let Pat Skiver know about any changes to the schedule at 542.6877 or via email at patskiver@fearringtoncares.org. Remember to pick up and return your driver’s packets at the Fearrington Cares office. And thanks for your help with this important service!

FEARRINGTON CARES SERVICES

Contact the Fearrington Cares office at 542.6877 to learn more about or to request one of these services: Transportation, Handyperson, Computer Help, Fearrington Friends.

EDUCATION SERIES RESUMES

Two great programs are scheduled for this month and a new series will begin in October so mark your calendars for these events. First up is “Update on Vaccinations” set for September 23 at 7:30 p.m. at the Gathering Place. Presented by Shirley Cotten, Registered Nurse with the Chatham County Health Department, this program will review the current recommendations for immunizations for individuals of all ages. From childhood to adulthood, measles to shingles, come learn what vaccinations are needed and at what ages.
On September 30 at 7:30 p.m. in the Gathering Place, Karen Monaco will present an interactive session on “Redefining Productivity in Retirement.” Whether retired or thinking about retiring, we will look at what gave us satisfaction in our earlier years and how to create activities now that will give us similar good feelings. We will look at our activities and ask ourselves tough questions like: Am I satisfied with how I am spending my time? Do I need to build in more “being” and less “doing” time? Karen Monaco, former national director of tobacco control for the American Lung Association, has spent 30 years dedicated to developing and presenting life-changing adult education programs. She has developed a five-session course entitled “Refirement not Retirement”. Karen has been a member of a support group called “Third Actors” which deals with such issues as redefining productivity, broadening our view of friendship, and handling our evolving roles as parents and caregivers.
Beginning in October, look for programs to help you plan for the challenges of aging with the debut of a new series called Planning for the Next Phases of Life. Topics will include ‘aging in place’ and in-home services; understanding late life developmental changes; leaving your legacy through life review and personal histories; writing condolence notes and obituaries; and information on funeral planning and arrangements.

INTERESTED IN VOLUNTEERING?

Whether you are new to volunteering or are looking for new opportunities, this program can help! Come to “Interested in Volunteering?” on September 29 from 9:00 a.m. to 10:00 a.m. at the Gathering Place. Learn what makes a good volunteer experience and about the many community service options available. In addition to volunteer opportunities with Fearrington Cares, a great new service, Volunteer Connection, developed by Donna Fehrenbach, will also be introduced. This program matches volunteers with non-profit agencies and services in Chatham County and the surrounding area. Donna will be available to meet with individuals to review potential places to volunteer. If you can’t make this program but are interested in volunteer opportunities or in using Volunteer Connects, please call Fearrington Cares at 542.6877 or contact Donna at volconnection@yahoo.com.

FEARRINGTON CARES RESOURCES

Did you know Fearrington Cares has extensive files of information on area providers and services related to independent living? You can access much of this on our website www.fearringtoncares.org or stop by the office, Monday through Friday, 9:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. and check out this great resource in files we have on this topic.

VILLAGE VIEW: FROM THE EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR

Do you collect quotes? I do. Here is one I’ve been pondering: “One thing I know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve.” Albert Schweitzer, whose life was devoted to humanitarian service, said that. Not everyone can make that kind of commitment, but most of us find time to be of service to others. Fearrington Cares is rich in such folks. I have been amazed at the number of volunteers and the range of ways they help your neighbors and the organization. We are fortunate so many of you have chosen Fearrington Cares as part of your way of being of service. Thank you for all you do!

CIRCLES OF SUPPORT – FEARRINGTON CARES GROUPS

One usually can’t get too far along in life without encountering illness, loss or disability. People find different approaches helpful in these situations. Some have found that being part of a support group can be a very helpful experience in coping with a chronic illness or learning to live with the loss of a loved one. Support groups typically provide a safe place for participants to express their feelings and fears, their questions and needs. Members of a group share similar experiences so they truly know something about how it feels to lose a spouse, or what it is like to live with Parkinson’s disease. Groups are led by a facilitator who may have had similar experiences to the members but who also has the skills and sensitivity to guide the conversations in directions that help all to understand and support each other. Many groups incorporate educational information or even occasional guest speakers into their meetings as well.

Fearrington Cares offers the following opportunities for residents to meet regularly with others and share some of the burdens of these experiences.

• Brain Injury group: for those dealing with conditions related to brain injuries and their caregivers
• Dementia Caregivers group: helps those who care for someone with Alzheimer’s or other dementia
• Bereavement group: provides
• support for those who have lost a close loved one
• Parkinson’s Disease groups: provides education and support for both patients and
caregivers
• Alcoholics Anonymous: provides support and fellowship for those living with
alcoholism

If you or someone you know in the Village would benefit from joining one of these groups, please contact Fearrington Cares.

ANNUAL CAMPAIGN PROGRESS

Our Annual Campaign has been underway since April. Many thanks to those of you who have given so generously. But, we are concerned that we have received contributions from only about 40% of Fearrington households. We need your help. Our hope is that everyone will try to give something. No amount is too small—all contributions are needed and gratefully received. Your participation at any level tells us you appreciate the hundreds of hours that our staff and volunteers devote to supporting the health and well being of everyone living in Fearrington Village.

Please remember, voluntary contributions and volunteer hours are what keep us going. We are not a membership organization – we do not charge people for our services. Our donors are our driving force. The only way YOU can continue to benefit from our services is if “people” contribute. For example, are you aware that the balance classes we have sponsored in
conjunction with Duke Center for Living cost us $100 per person? We initiated this program with the help of an outside grant to get it started. We will not be able to continue these worthwhile classes if the ongoing funds from the community are not there.

Likewise, we pay our nurse, Joyce Baird, to perform many services for us, including foot care clinics, and we pay our excellent support group leaders. You might not need our services now, but will you someday? Can you help keep those services in place for your neighbors who do need them?

Don’t forget it’s easy to give online through our web site. Go to www.fearringtoncares.org. Click on Donate and follow the prompts. We have a long way to go – and thanks again to all who have contributed already.

VOLUNTEERS NEEDED

Volunteers are as important as donors in the day-to-day running of Fearrington Cares. If you are looking for a rewarding activity, please sign up so that we can get your name in our data base. We need new drivers, more computer help group members, new people willing to be active, enthusiastic committee members, and people with special skills to help us as the need arises. To sign up, stop by the office and pick up a sign-up form, OR go to our web site, above. Click on Volunteer –
Job Possibilities.

NEED A FEARRINGTON FRIEND?

Do you have a neighbor or know someone in Fearrington who hardly ever goes out and seems eager for human contact? may be shy about asking you or someone else to call them just to chat or if they need something. , Fearrington Cares has the solution – the Fearrington Friends Program. can suggest that, besides yourself, there is someone else living in Fearrington who would love to get to know them and check in with them on a regular basis. can they meet that person? they have to do is call Fearrington Cares and say they want information about Fearrington Friends. Program is there for them. All they need to do is call 542-6877.

DEMENTIA CAREGIVERS GROUP

A new group was formed recently to offer support and education for those providing care or who are concerned about someone who is dealing with dementia, Alzheimer’s disease or similar
conditions. The group is ably facilitated by volunteers Karen and Fred Schectman; each of whom has a distinguished background in working with groups and individuals.

If you would like to join or want more information, please call Fearrington Cares or plan to attend one of the next meetings. The group meets at the Fearrington Cares office on Wednesdays at 12:30 – 2:00; the summer schedule is July 7th and August 4th

DO YOU KNOW A BYTE FROM A BIT?

Then we need you! The Fearrington Cares Computer Help Group needs to add to its team of volunteers who help neighbors with various computer challenges. Volunteers with solid knowledge of either Mac or PC computer equipment and operations and are able to translate that expertise into practical help will make ideal volunteers for this special service. Interested? Call Anne at Fearrington Cares (542-6877) for more information.